Sensual Oils and essential oils for Asian massage

Almost every type of massage uses oils. Oils are needed to help a masseuse’s hands move smoothly and freely over your skin without any uncomfortable friction, which you would have without any lubrication. I deliberately use the word lubrication because in order to make the skin slippery, some so-called masseuses use butters, lotions and gels. (Of course, they are the ones who everyone knows I love. Yes, I am talking about those wonderful, charming, opportunists posting ads as professional masseuses who use baby oils for massage. Good for them, bad for the clients and worse for the business, but I am not going there, not today.)

There are not major benefits in using oils, lotions and gels, at the end it is more a personal option unless we are doing a special treatment. For example, a London Nuru massage therapist will use a specific gel which is very slippery and made with seaweed, which makes a gel not only with high lubrication properties, but also very detox. A reflexotherapist will probably use a butter while giving a foot massage because this is an area which is usually dry and oils will get absorbed too fast, also gels and butters will keep the area cold giving a shooting effect.

As a sensual massage therapist and Tantric practitioner, my personal choice is always oils. When you mention oils, many people are already thinking of a very greasy substance which is going to stay on the skin for hours and is going to stain the clothes as well. This is probably true of baby oil because the base is a petroleum derived product, but a massage oil is not. There is a difference to make between carried oils and essential oils. Massage oils have two components, one is the essence – do not confuse with fragrance, essence is natural, fragrance is synthetic – and the medium, where we dissolve the essence for a massage oil, the medium, is going to be oil and those are the carried oils.

butterfly sensual massage oil

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There are hundreds of carried oils, jojoba, almond, avocado, castor seed oils and so on. These oils are vegetable and therefore the skin will usually absorb them very easily. Some are thicker than others and we mix these in order to obtain the right consistency for the oils, the right thickness, in other words, lubrication. Depending on the type of treatment and the type of skin we are treating, some could feel more greasy than others, but the grease is not animal based, is not animal fat, which is usually the one leaving nasty stains on your clothes, as petroleum derived oils will also do. Are you getting my drift now? I think so < grim >. Carried oils are seeds, flowers, roots, plant extracts, and all of them have different benefits for our health, beauty and are also therapeutic. When a therapist has the right training, usually as an aromatherapist, he knows for what to use each carried oil, how we can treat skin problems, nurse muscles, and balance emotional disorders.

Many clients freak out when you mention the essential oils, but most of the time, they do so for the wrong reasons. When we hear the voice of essential oils, is very common to think we are going to stink of flowers, patchouli, lavender… all over the town, and that people will kick us out of public places for smelling like an old Victorian lady at a royal reception; other times we are afraid we are going to smell like an ambulant drug store. Lets face the first fact:

The amount of essential oils to use is minimum, a couple of drops per full body massage, which means that unless someone is sniffing you like a dog on heat, he is not going to get any smell.

Another fact is that because we are not using any alcohol the smell is very volatile, so probably the strong smell you will get during the massage will be gone after one hour, which probably is by the end of the massage session. The use of alcohol in perfumery is exactly to make the perfume stay longer over our skin, which is the reason why when buying a natural perfume it does not last longer, because there is no alcohol in it, or at least should not be. I guess this is the same as those ‘professional’ masseuses using the baby oils, get figure how many natural perfumes are as natural as they should be.

Another reason is that essential oils are natural oils not synthetic fragrances, which are the ones usually used in perfumery for the same reason as alcohol, to make it last longer.

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What has all that to do with sensual massage and tantric massage?

Everything and nothing. Let me get there. A sensual masseuse or a tantric massage practitioner will give you a great experience no matter what oil he uses, except, yes, you got it, that damned baby oil. But when we are allowed to support our technique with the right essential oils, the whole experience gets enchanted. Essential oils are like the spices used while cooking. I know many purists say that if the ingredients are top quality, spices are not necessary, and it could make sense. We can say the same about the massage: if the massage is good, nothing else is needed. But it is.

During a sensual massage session, all the senses get stimulated, and the more we stimulate the senses, the richer is going to be the experience. A good massage technique could only achieve some senses, but not all of them smell, taste, as well as never will substitute the stimulation of a relaxing sound, you do not want to hear me sing. All those are the spices of a sensual massage session. Yes if a client does not want me to use essential oils, I can still burn incense, but it will be the same as instead of using perfume, you just perfume the room, the smell is there but not on you. There is something sensual when the smell increases with the movements of the therapist. You will get the smell on different intensities according to his movements or where the essential oils have been applied; yes, there is also a way to do it, to intensify a session, there is an order and a way to apply the essential oils. When the smell is on the room, incense, herbs and so on, the smell is just there. Essential oils also have properties, there are thousands of essential oils and each one has its own properties, which are more intense and specific than the ones from the carried oils, aware of those, we use one or other essential oils depending on what we want to achieve.

London Tantric massage beside the sensual component of a full body nude massage session has also a mystical, spiritual component, and we use specific essential oils to boost those essential oils, such as sandalwood, cedar, sage, basil, which will aid our mind to go to a meditative state. But also there is a process, which is first to calm our mind and thoughts, second to induce the mind to a meditative state, but after and more importantly we need to energise the person we are treating so he will feel energised, happy and ready to take over the day. Yes, in many cases because the aim is different we will stop the process. If you are having a massage at twelve in the night at your hotel, why should I energise you, if all you want is to sleep? I want you to remember me in the morning but not because you did not get any sleep after the massage.

Essential oils are expensive?

Very! There are cheap versions? Keep away from those, and for the ones using baby oils, no, the one pound store essential oils are not a substitute. Those will burn and if you put on the skin of someone you are going to burn his skin and probably intoxicate them. Essential oils are expensive and that’s the fact, cheap versions are for burning to create or synthetic now. Just please be aware, essential oils have a lot of benefits but also can harm you. Never go to someone who does not know what he is doing. I can keep you calm or I can give you a head pain for the rest of the day. Essential oils should be always diluted in the right proportion so you do not get any rush or your skin gets burn, and there are essential oils which are a big No, no never to be used! So as I always say, go to a professional, pay what we professionals usually charge, and if it smells like a baby oil, run away!!!

Sensual Massage – What Is Happening To Our London Competition?

As many of you know we introduced the concept of professional, erotic sensual massage in London in 2011 – and were soon followed by a few serious competitors like Eros and 7th Heaven.

These two agencies did amazing marketing and had wonderful sensual massage videos that has helped enormously to ‘spread the word’. Many people got curious what erotic massage was all about. Naked massage in London became an established in the market of adult relaxation.

Erotic massage was talked about frequently by patrons of Stringfellows London, you know that exclusive nightclub and restaurant where successful people go to entertain themselves and watch beautiful girls dancing on stage. Many of these patrons decided to book a massage after their visit to Peter Stringfellows famous venue on St Martin’s Lane.

Competition make us better

Thanks to our competitors we went from strength to strength; supply creates demand, so we got bigger and bigger and remain the leading service for visiting erotic massage in London.

So Butterfly Massage, Eros Massage and 7th Heaven massage were London’s top 3 providers for sensual full body massage but were soon followed by many other agencies and small groups of independent masseuses who set up shop in London.

Especially 2011 and 2012 there has been a hype in agencies and small groups of girls setting up shop. As the massage industry is a very volatile business that takes a lot of courage, funds and optimism, many of those ‘start-ups’ have already disappeared or have lost enthusiasm in picking up the phone.
As usual, when the going gets tough, only the tough get going…

Yeah folks, creating a website and dressing that up with some great photos of sexy looking females or making a hot, sensual video clip is the easy part. To reach the customers is much harder.
Recently I observe a big shift in spending on advertising. Most competitors have completely skipped their banners and listings on the web or just maintain a small and often free listing.

And Butterfly? Well we just paid the bill for another year of advertising our services all over London and the UK. As I wrote above, when the going gets tough, the tough get going.

New Photos Of Jenny

 

 


 

Some of you may already know Jenny – her friends call her JJ. This girl has an amazing body with which she just loves to do a hot and steamy body to body massage.

Jenny is a sweet and lovely young girl with a radiating sensuality and an energizing positive attitude to life – especially when it comes to relaxing massage she is dedicated to make her clients relaxed, enjoy every touch of her hands and naughty fingers.

Some of her regulars call her ‘miss happiness’ and initially we wondered if that was about her personality or her treatments. But undoubtedly it is all about everything that Jenny does. As she says with one of her naughty smiles “When I come in the room I am happy – when I leave my customer, we are both happy, very happy!”

Oh you want to book a ‘happy ending massage’ in London? I am afraid we do that Sir. But rest are assured, Jenny, like any of our other amazingly skilled masseuses has very strong hands and with those hands… she will make even the most demanding customer very happy!

Actually, when a caller asks our operator if the massages have a happy ending, we instantly know the caller is from the States – Yippie Yi Yo!

Happy ending massages are so USA. Here in Europe and in London we never use this expression. A fully nude erotic massage or a Tantric massage is enough to make everyone, including our well respected American customers happy.

And buddy good news for you – every Butterfly masseuse, including Jenny does accept US dollars!

Time To Relax – New Opening Hours

sensual massage treatment in KnightsbridgeAs of per next Monday October 1st we have made a slight adjustment in our opening hours. Now you can call our office already from 02.00 to book your massage. Last bookings are taken at 03.00.

We feel that this is more according to what our respected London customers need. Besides, we find that after 01.00 the majority of the callers are a bit tipsy or even drunk, tired and usually looking for something more than an erotic massage.
Something that we can not offer them!

The best time for a massage is after work, anywhere between 17.00 and mid night. Usually these are our busiest hours, so it is recommended to book your massage as early as possible.

And remember, if you do allow us a minimum notice of 48 hrs.

We are at your service daily from 11.00 till 01.00.
For the best erotic massage you can get in London.

Why We not accept card for Payment

Butterfly London Sensual Massage was one of the few agencies in the London visiting massage business, if not the only one, that accepted credit cards. For many years we provided this service to our London customers without issues. Cards were charged discreetly over the phone and the biling statement never showed any relation to erotic massage.

Unfortunately we had to decide to suspend this service. The nature of the adult massage business dictates a specific processing procedure in order to prevent fraude. We have concluded this has become too complicated for both our operators and our customers.

So from this week on Butterfly Sensual Massage London has joined the other massage services that only accept cash. For the sake of discretion and convenience. So whenever you book your relaxing massage with us, make sure to have your cash ready.
Cash is King and the Sterling rules the Kingdom!

A little tip. For those of you who are short of cash but have their plastic at hand, ask your hotel repectionist for a cash pay-out on your card or find the nearest ATM machine.

Rest assured that any sensual massage paid in cash is just as arousing and relaxing as massages paid with your card.